Find out what oral sex positions work best for you and your sexual partner! No doubt, the easiest way to improve your oral sex skills is to begin using new and various blow job positions on your boyfriend. It isn’t only easy, but it will also make your oral sex really different too. It’s perfect for introducing a bit extra variation that you will both like.

Before presenting you each of these 3 different oral sex positions, the first thing you have to learn is how your position when giving your guy a blowjob influences your gag reflex. Really? Yes, it sure does. If your gag reflex is sensitive, then choosing the right position can be helpful for minimizing it. This is because the position you choose can either widen your throat minimizing your gag reflex or make it narrower making your gag reflex even worse. Keeping this in mind, it’s time to learn some sex positions to use on your sexual partner.

The Original

We are going to begin with a really easy sex position. To use it, your boyfriend needs to be standing while you are on your knees. Sounds simple, right? Well it is, but there are several simple things you can do in the original position to make it much more enjoyable for you and your sexual partner.

The first one is realizing that in case you face your mouth and face towards the ceiling while using the original position, you are going to straighten out your throat. This will minimize your gag reflex much. Then make sure to use your hands while giving him blowjob. This isn’t just so that you can also give him a hand job during sucking, but also so that you can prevent your boyfriend from thrusting too deep when he gets carried away. Now for something a bit more out there…

Lying Back

Lying back oral sex position is immensely different to the original one. To perform the lie back position, you must lie down on your bed on your back, but with your head hanging over the edge of the bed. You need to try to let your head and neck relax quite a bit so that your head is upside down and you’re looking towards the wall on the opposite side of the bedroom.

If your bed is rather high, your boyfriend will be standing, if it’s low – kneeling. Don’t let your boyfriend thrusting in and out of your mouth no matter how excited and enthusiastic he can be. You’re in a quite vulnerable position, so it’s vital that he begins off remaining stationary until you get comfortable. In several minutes, when you feel more comfortable you can then allow your sexual partner to slowly move in and out more. You will figure out in the lie back position that you will naturally have to straighten out your throat when using it, which again minimizes your gag reflex.

Face plow

Face plow is a way more extreme oral sex position to try out with your sexual partner. Your boyfriend will be in almost absolute control, so don’t try it out with him in case you aren’t comfortable with him in control while giving him head. Coupled with your guy being in control, your throat will also be bent, unlike the previous two oral sex positions, making it much more likely that you will gag.

To get set up in the face plow position, you need first lie down on your back and put several pillows under your head to prop it up. Your guy will then straddle you, facing you. His knees should both be right under your armpits so that his crotch is exactly in your face. Then he just puts his penis in your mouth.

While your sexual partner will have rather much all the control in the face plow position, it is still a nice idea to begin with gently and slowly, so make sure your lover stays at first until you’re comfortable. Then if you want him to take control, he can pin your arms behind your head with one hand and put his other hand on the back of your head to control the depth he takes. Now we understand that this last oral sex position perhaps is not for everybody, but at least trying it can help find out what positions are possible.